The Financial Burden of NetDoms

At least that’s the title I am giving them.

“I would like to explore an online D/s relationship before taking things offline.” Eventually it comes up in a conversation with them.

One wants me in granny panties, another wants me in thongs. Someone else prefers purple lingerie on all his subs. And another one has a lactation fetish, so he would like to see me in nursing bras.

They all want photos sent by tomorrow, or the next day. Thankfully, I have Amazon Prime.

And when they all ghost me? I am stuck with hundreds of dollars worth of useless (to me,) clothing that ends up being donated. I could have used that money toward all those in-app purchases when I play Tsum Tsum 🤷🏻‍♀️


*originally published April 26, 2019 on Fetlife.

Comments

  1. Bow and Arrow ManJune 29, 2024 at 4:36 AM

    I guess there's no second-hand market for clothing like this.

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  2. Debbi (Enigma)June 29, 2024 at 4:50 AM

    No one can convince me that an online D/s relationship is worth the hassle.

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  3. smartyJune 29, 2024 at 1:16 PM

    I'm not inclined to play along with those games, but if I were, I think my solution would be to ask THEM to buy it on Amazon and have it shipped to an Amazon locker near me. No way should you be financially on the hook for fulfilling someone's fantasy.

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