I had a vanilla friend; we met while he was the driver of the bus I take to work. He was extroverted and chatty, something which I am not. When we were acquaintances, the conversations were light and fluffy. As we got to know each other, I noticed a change in his demeanor. I found him to be rather judgmental of other people and made presumptions based on what he saw. Recently I told him about my submissive nature and he got all FSoG and asked why I liked being beaten, if I suffered from low-self esteem, etc. He thinks it's an excuse for women to have their hands all over men but the minute men touch women, men get in trouble. I tried to explain to him about protocols in service-oriented relationships, but he kept going back to his experiences in vanilla nightclubs. When I showed him the results of a Shibari class I took, he stated it was just another excuse to blame a male for unwanted sex or touching because I'd be restrained. Around this time each year, I knit beanies a...
Whether being furniture or a tray, I'm guessing that it takes a lot of discipline to stay still and not cave into tired muscles and painful joints.
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